Posted in C-Haze

Affluenza, Mexico and Couches

This “Affluenza” kid is the gift that keeps on giving.

In 2013, after famously causing the deaths of four people during while driving drunk, Ethan Couch was charged as a juvenile with intoxication manslaughter. A mental health expert testified that the teen did not know the difference between right and wrong due to his extremely privileged upbringing, dubbed “affluenza”.

The judge took this under advisement at trial, and as a result, chose to sentence Ethan to 10 years’ probation in lieu of jail time. The ruling, for obvious reasons, pissed off the families and loved ones of the victims, and shocked the public at large.

This bratty killer went on to further enrage the masses when, in 2015, video emerged of the jerk playing beer pong at a party – a direct violation of his probation. He immediately stopped reporting to his probation officer, and soon headlines were flashing that Ethan and his mother were missing.

Apparently, dodging the bullet of spending many decades in prison wasn’t good enough for this young man and his mother. No, they would do their damnedest to see to it that he suffered zero consequences for his murderous behavior, making sure he is able to continue drinking as much as he wants, whenever he wants.

So, they fled.

While on the run, people started looking into the Couch background, and learned that at least where Ethan’s concerned, the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. Not only was this not his first brush with the law (involving underage drinking, no less), but both of his parents have criminal records as well.

His father has been charged in the past with criminal mischief, theft by check, assault, and most recently, impersonating a police officer in 2014. His ex-wife, Ethan’s mother, was charged with reckless driving for using her car to force another vehicle off the road.

Real winners, these two.

Ethan and his mother were ultimately located at a resort in Mexico. His mother was extradited to the US, while her son is still fighting deportation. While in Mexico, Ethan continued to live it up, even visiting a strip club, and when he had no money to pay the bill at the end of the night, his mother stepped in and took care of it for him.

After this family’s utter disregard for human life and the law, we learn that even if Ethan Couch is successfully deported back to the United States, the most time he could spend in prison is 120 days.


Posted in Afghanistan, C-Haze, Crime, Current Events, Farkhunda Malikzada, Islam, Justice, New York Times, Quran

New York Times, Quran and Justice

On December 26, 2015, the New York Times posted a lengthy story with disturbing video showing an Afghan woman being beaten to death for allegedly burning a Quran at a local shrine. The story should be required reading for everyone, and should be part of our collective awareness of the world around us.

Farkhunda Malikzada was 27 years old, a victim of mob justice in a country that is known for its deplorable treatment of women.

Following her death, it was determined that the woman did not burn a Quran at all. (Color me Western, but I fail to understand how her violent murder would have been justified even if she had burned a Quran, but I digress.)

Fortune tellers would visit the shrine on certain days. Wednesdays, for example, were only for women, and amulets could be purchased from the fortune tellers to help them get pregnant, conceive male children, get married, etc. The amulets consisted of little more than pieces of paper that had writing on them. The women would pin the paper to themselves.

These practices are not religious in nature, and some people – Farkhunda being one of them – took issue with the use of “superstition” under the veil of religion. She confronted the fortune teller.

Later, it was determined that in addition to amulets, the fortune teller was smuggling Viagra into the shrine, and condoms too. Some even suspected he was a pimp of sorts.

What Farkhunda actually did, was stand up for her religious faith by standing up to this fraudulent man at the shrine. She was protecting her religion. The terrible irony is that she was accused of disrespecting her faith in the most heinous of ways – by burning a Quran – when she was, in fact, doing the opposite. If anything, what Farkhunda actually burned were the amulets. Those useless pieces of paper her fellow sisters were hanging their entire existences on.

She was not given a criminal trial, nor due process. She was beaten to death in the street, her body burned, while police and others stood by.

Women, joined by a few men, marched in the streets, demanding justice for Farkhunda. Candlelight vigils were held, and high profile people took notice.

An investigation was conducted. Some people were charged with crimes relating to Farkhunda’s murder. The man who first accused her of burning the Quran, even received a death sentence.

For a minute, at least, it felt like a victory. Even as she wasn’t alive to see it, perhaps Farkhunda would get justice. Perhaps the women of Afghanistan – all of those who had been abused before Farkhunda – would receive justice.

Then, just as quickly, those wheels of “justice” shifted. While many people were tried and convicted in the case, quite a few had their sentences overturned or drastically reduced upon appeal. The man who accused Farkhunda of burning the Quran had his death sentence commuted to life in prison, a sentence in Afghanistan that equates to 20 years. Another man who was given a death sentence had it reduced on appeal to a mere 10 years imprisonment.

Many of the guilty had their sentences overturned, but it appears many of the innocent were convicted as well.

In short, chaos reigned, and it looks as if actual justice was the last thing on the minds of many. The court system in Afghanistan does not resemble that of its western contemporaries. In fact, the lawyers of one of the accused didn’t even know his client’s trial had begun until the man’s father called and told him so. Defendants are allowed only short statements at trial, to be recited at the very end of the proceedings. The judges rule almost immediately thereafter, rendering it inconceivable that they’re taking the statements of the accused into consideration.

Farkhunda’s family fled Afghanistan, but still seek justice for her, having appealed to the country’s supreme court for assistance. Still today, many think of Farkhunda as the “woman who burned the Quran”, and who was lynched for doing so.

Posted in 50 Cent, Domestic Violence, Rapper, Social Media, Twitter

50 Cent, Domestic Violence and the Gucci Couch

For the past few days, social media has been all aflutter over rapper 50 Cent, and the pending domestic violence case against him.

According to news reports, Fitty and the mother of his child were arguing. She fled to the bathroom, closing the door. Enraged, he allegedly kicked in the door, and kicked her as well. As a result, he has been charged with a single count of domestic violence, and several counts of vandalism.

I don’t know if 50 Cent is guilty or innocent. His behavior in light of this incident, however, is deplorable.

As news of the charges against him hit the cyberworld, 50 instantly began making fun of the allegations on Twitter. He has posted a series of pictures of himself in various places with the captions, “I’m not in jail, I’m…” and fills in the blank with his activities at present. In one, he says, “I’m not in jail, I’m in the strip club.” Another reads, “I’m not in jail, I’m on my Gucci couch.” All are accompanied by pictures.

He later retweeted a fan’s comment, reading in part: “Your ex is stupid whore!”

At best, the rapper is innocent, and has been wrongfully accused of- and charged with- a serious crime by the mother of his child. At worst, he brutalized the mother of his child.

None of us know what really happened, or what didn’t really happen. Regardless, however, the situation is serious, and is not a joke. His refusal to stop poking fun of the judicial system; his refusal to stop laughing at and humiliating the woman who bore his child is appalling.

It sheds light on the man 50 Cent really is- or at the very least, the man he wants the rest of the world to see.

He could easily have said nothing about the charges against him, opting instead to let the system crank through those squeaky wheels of justice privately. Just as easily, he could have used this unfortunate situation as a platform to speak out against domestic violence- a terrible epidemic that plagues women the world over.

Instead, he’s laughing.

No, he’s not in jail…

… He’s shallow.

Posted in Barack Obama, C-Haze, Children, News, Policy, Politics, Race

Happy MLK Day!!

Happy MLK day!

Today this holiday holds more significance than ever.

What an amazing tribute to Dr. King’s legacy… and to all those who came before and after him.

 This, on the eve of the presidential inauguration… as we swear our first black president into office.

I am extremely proud to witness such an important moment in our nation’s history.

I will always be grateful to a country that makes it possible, after all these years, to look at my daughters and tell them, “Yes you can!!”…

… And mean it.

Now when I say it, I’m not just hoping the words are real… I know I am speaking the truth.

Posted in C-Haze, Children, News

Child, 8- Double Murderer?

I am having a tough time wrapping my brain around this news of an 8 year old boy committing double homicide.

I just don’t know if I believe what I’m hearing…

According to news sources, this 8 year old kid inexplicably- but purposely- shot and killed his father, and his father’s roommate.


Perhaps I’m naive… or overly optimistic… but how is it possible for an 8 year old to consciously, knowingly, commit murder?

To shoot two people…

On purpose.

There is no history of abuse… no known disciplinary problems…

… Just a regular ol’ kid… a regular ol’ dad… and a regular ol’ roommate…

Two of them dead.

A child’s life, ruined.

I don’t believe it… I can’t believe it.

The police interrogated the boy at length- without reading him his rights (who knows if he’d have understood them- but that isn’t the point), or having a parent or lawyer present.

He confessed.

I wonder… was it a confession?

Or coercion?

The story is missing huge chunks of information. It can’t possibly be as simple as we’re being told it is…

… Police, as yet, have no motive.

A gag order has been imposed by the judge assigned to the case.

The interrogation is public record, but no one associated with the case is allowed to discuss it publicly.

Legal analysts, lawyers and child advocates all seem to agree…

… Something doesn’t smell right.


It’s downright putrid.