Oh. My. God.
Of all the disgusting, completely irresponsible things I have seen on the internet, this is probably the worst of them all.
I just came across an article at ParentDish about the Arnold family. Alicha Arnold is pregnant, and apparently didn’t know whether or not she wanted to keep the child…
She, along with her husband, started a website. The purpose of the site is to poll the public- should they have the baby or abort it?
Mrs. Arnold, who has been married for 9 years, explains her uncertainty by saying, “I’m not convinced that I want to change the status quo… I feel that as I age I’ve actually gotten more selfish and set in my ways. I’m afraid that I will eventually regret starting a family and ‘settling down,’ as they say. I fear that the constant pressure to be the perfect wife and mother while maintaining a full-time job will eventually cause my brain to implode and lead to a nervous breakdown.”
The Arnolds seem well-educated and financially stable. They both work in technology, and have been a couple for more than a decade. Certainly for these two upwardly mobile people, birth control was not a mystery, or a myth. They could have easily availed themselves to it, and yet they didn’t. When the inevitable happened (you see, when two people love each other, the man will stick his… well, you know where I’m headed with this…), and she got pregnant, she turned to that which she knows best- technology- to help make the biggest, most heart-wrenching, personal decision she will likely ever face.
Allow me to rephrase.
She turned to others– strangers (!) to make that decision for her.
I am disgusted.
Ultimately, it seems the Arnolds, with the public’s assistance, have chosen to continue their pregnancy.
Truly, I have no idea if I’m relieved or not…
… This woman will be a mother soon.
How do you parent a child whose fate you once left to the public? To strangers, freaks, hackers, psychopaths, politicians (sorry- couldn’t resist!)?
“Now look, Junior! You better show some respect! If not for that 51% on my website, you wouldn’t even be here right now! Go clean your room like I asked you to!”
I dunno, folks.
I declare I’ve seen it all.